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Is it ok to only use preferred pronouns if they're under 5'8? I have a few tranny friends and I'm fine to gender them as female. But they introduced me to this giant 6ft+ one and I just can't do it. Is that okay/PC?
I'm shorter and I wouldn't mind being your height if I could get a taller boyfriend. I just want to feel validated.
you're petty like a schoolgirl. You're annoying me.
>t-tallfags BTFO only us 5'6 are trutrans!!
Is it OK to only use preferred pronouns if they're under 5'3"? I have a few tranny friends and I'm fine to gender them as female. But they introduced me to this giant 5'4"+ one and I just can't do it. Is that okay/PC?
If you're serious, leave.
If you're joking, leave.
is it mean to feel dysphoric when real girls talk about their periods
If i've got a shitty hairline (MPB but working on it, should be okay with time but sucks right now) can I grow my hair long enough at the front to cover it? my hairline is not as bad as others but it bothers me. Honestly i'm too scared through social transition until i'm happy with my hair. I may just wear a wig while it grows, I don't know.
I'm NW2, not quite as bad as the others thankfully, but I still want to cover my stupid hairline with a fringe. Is it possible? What kind of long hair styles will make it less obvious?
Yeah, you can get a fringe or have it fall to obscure it a bit
Do you just ask to get it cut a specific way at the stylist then? I've never had my hair cut before in a 'stylised' way, if that makes sense. I'd love to have a centre parting once my temples have regrown a bit (hopefully) but until then.
Actually does this style obscure the temples well enough? It kinda looks like it does
I don't ever want to wear a wig reeeeEEEEEEEEEE. I'll boymode while I get my whole hair regrowth thing and my fro grows. I can't let the world miss on that, it'd be shitty of me.
this true the ideal man for an HSTS is a bisexual man?
>>9589572 >corrective rape
>>9589572 >Male Bisexuals are all bottoms. >says, a straight man is required.
Well then, I guess gay guy make the cut too. So, in other words HSTS needs a man not bisexual?
Gays don't like to fuck femmes.
and straight men don't like homosexual men pretending to be women.
sorry to burst your bubble, hon.
It's even worse among women.
Do you have insecurities about your height? What effects if any does it have on your life? Discuss.
I'm a 5'5" gay guy and I'm not sure how I feel about it. I'm afraid people won't take me too seriously and my youngish looking face doesn't seem to help (I'm 20).
I'm a 5ft8 bi female.
When I date guys I can tell they usually hate it esp. When I wear heels
Girls love it
Men are useless and insecure manlets desu. Tall men are sluts. I should just give up men.
short guys are cute as fuck, although if they try to work out and get swole it just looks wrong.
5'10" girl. Love my height.
5'8" and I would gladly sell my fucking soul to become 2-4 inches smaller.
Same height, teach me how to lurve it
I'm 26. Tell me it's too late.
It's too late.
26? Yeah bro, too late
It depends on genetics, I started at 18 and after 10 months of HRT I'm still absolutely hopeless, other people pass flawlessly at when they start at 30.
I transitioned at 18 and don’t pass, choose your cards carefully OP
Age is a meme. Everything is a meme it's just another roll on the genetic lottery and everyone ends up losing in someway.
I don't care if it's wrong I just love teasing my straight friend it's fun
>made compliments on his ass >rest my barefeet on him while playing videogames and he doesn't complain >made him admit he jerks to traps >tickled him everytime >made him tell me his dick size What else evil things could I do?
You aint straight calling people senpai faggot. kys
also stop trying to assume the dominant role, we both know you are the faggot getting fucked.. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was thinking to ask you "what about the BENIS?" but i already can see the "feminine BENIS" argument.
>>9584882 >Your post gave me a boner >>9584588 >I would lose on purpose >>9583283 >Hnnrggnh >tfw not being bullied by cute boys >>9582502 >fuck hes lucky >>9581823 >>rest my barefeet on him >god damn.. that made me so fucking hard
What a bunch of bottoms, first one to post kik gets to be my personal foot slave
Now isn't that a tempting offer
Y-You didn't have to greentext every post...
Why don't you have a bf yet, gaygen?
Would you be loyal to your bf?
Would you trust him to be loyal to you?
darn cute! name?
How does a cis girl seduce and woo a trans girl?
that poster is likely a troll and not a real blanchardian, judging from the not liking guys bit and not recommending bailey's book for the psychology of trannies
why do you specifically want to 'woo' a transgirl?
This. Making first moves, and even texting first, makes me really dysphoric and sad
Have you tried giving her headpats?
This is for cis LG (cishet lurkers too I guess).
Imagine you have to change either orientation or sex. It's a 100% perfect change, as if you were reborn with different orientation/sex - no dysphoria etc. Would you rather: 1) stay your sex and change your orientation to heterosexual, or 2) change sex and retain your sexual attraction (i.e. become straight of the opposite gender)? I'm lesbian and I'd probably rather become male and stay attracted to women. Being female is ok but becoming male feels like a less radical change than becoming attracted to men. It's like I have no particular innate concept or feel that I'm female, so I could just as well be male - but I really can't imagine being attracted to men, even though changing orientation is objectively a smaller change. I know it sounds a bit paradoxical and absurd and that's why I'm asking the question, how would you answer? >no i'm not a man-hating radfem. i love men on every level except sexual
I guess I should elaborate a bit more since it got my noggin joggin
I would choose to be a straight male over a straight female because females are, on average, weaker than males. They complain and bitch way more. They get pregnant. They menstrate which is gross.
That being said I was genuinely thinking about being a straight female in your scenario for the sole purpose I could be with men however.
I'm not gay.
>>9591213 >it's seems awful and disgusting to me.
If you're not gay why would you think or care about being with men?
Anyway OP's options for a straight guy are gay man vs lesbian woman.
>>9591212 >Women are victims of far less violence though?
Less doesn't mean little. And having a vagina would make me feel inherently vulnerable.
>>9591238 >This is for cis LG
To me Ops question is for lesbos and fags. How I interpreted the question was:
If you could be straight would you change your orientation or sex?
What is it about it a feminine girl face and a feminized male body with a cute cock so appealing? Why do I have to like this when traps/trans girls are so rare?
As a side note, Japanese traps are patricians tier as are Japanese as a whole.
I want to be punished by my daddy but when I saw this girl,I wish I could use her hard
>>9588042 >Would you leave your gf if she decided to have SRS?
Not the same anon, but yes, unless she agrees to keep the penetration strictly in her boipussy instead of her neo-vagina.
I'd also leave a cis gf if she decides to turn into a roid monster, in fact I did it once already.
>>9587699 >HSTS traps and trans are generally the most traumatized and damaged members of LGBT,
Just because I'm DAMAGED doesn't mean I can't think everything is a joke.
I mean it's actually pretty funny when you think about the shit that you've been though and how in this moment nothing actually matters lmao.
I don't think I'd stop crying if I took life any more seriously than I take shitposting.
>>9587699 >Psst: HSTS traps and trans are generally the most traumatized and damaged members of LGBT, and they're not effeminate because they "realized life is a joke so you might as well be really gay."
Yeah, I was pretty much shitposting.
>Be me. >barely passable hon. >fall in love with this amazing guy. >5 years of bliss we date. >takes care of me >talk about marriage. >fast forward to christmas time. >he starts drinking more, I know hes under alot of stress. >somtimes he says really mean shit. >promises to quit drinking. >breaks promise over and over. >still drinks but cuts back. How do I help him? I don't want to abandon him, not after all hes done for me. He doesnt want to go to AA, he says they are a cult. What am I supose to do? I just want my best friend back.
>>9590366 >If it's from the relationship then you need to work harder to make sure he feels appreciated and loved.
Maybe... and maybe also there's something wrong on his end too.
>>9589852 >He doesnt want to go to AA, he says they are a cult.
Get him real therapy
Childhood Trauma, Financial Secrets, Death In The Family, Psychosis, Guilt, Conflicting Emotions and these are just a few of a plethora of individual or combined reasons he might be having a hard time. Posting on 4chan, incidentally, solves none of them.
Talk to him. If they are issues out of control like a psychosis, drag him to a shrink to get him on medication. Do something so he can get himself back under control.
AA is indeed a christian cult that tells their members that they can't kick booze without accepting G-d into their hearts
you should still find him a good non-AA support group or therapist
>>9589852 > under a lot of stress
You’re probably why he’s stressed, imagine looking back and realising you wasted 5 years with a mtf who can’t even have kids or a proper career/ life and doesn’t offer anything other than sex. Most men would be drinking away that mistake too.
My question is absolutely legitimate and not meant to be inflammatory. When I started my transition, I thought that trans-women were courageous and extremely intelligent people. However, I found out that the opposite is true. The stupidity, lack of self-awareness, ignorance of trans-women are appalling. I do not think I am smart, but, at least I have some self-awareness and critical thinking. I think there must be a correlation between stupidity and transgenderism.
Look at the screenshot attached. Someone says that people do not go around with a ruler or spreading caliper, therefore, craniofacial differences between men and women are irrelevant. Therefore, unless someone has a degree in forensic anthropologist, they will not clock you. I have also met people in real life, with whom I had previously chatted online, who swore up and down that they were stealth and nobody clocked them, and yet, they looked ridiculously manly and anybody in Starbucks coffee were clocking them.
I think it's just part of the general halo effect of the LGBT.
Movies, activism, PSAs all paint us as these intelligent, sturdy, level headed, doe-eyed victims of discrimination when in reality we are not much different from cishets, in that 99% of us are boring idiots. The more situated you get in the LGBT the more you realize that gender identity and orientation are just descriptors, conditions of a person's life which have next to no effect on their personality, intelligence, or disposition.
Oh wait I just realized this is another skull autist thread. Ignore my post.
Human brains have special face recognising abilities. This is most accurate with people who are considered the same race.
So, people will recognise a lot, but a different matter is do they care? Or why should they?
I agreed with her Tbh until she started spazzing out about surgery
Listen here skull-autist-chan.
Not everyone has a humongous skull like you.
You should really stop posting on 4chan and live your boymode life.
Beard edition. What's your beard goal?
Bottom surgery info:
Old sites, but still great one-stop-shops for FTM information:
Our levels are monitored though, we we are fine?
Do volunteer work in Indonesia or Malaysia. It might not cure your height but being around other men your own height (the average male height in Indonesia is 5'2", with people on the countryside being shorter than that and urban a bit taller) might help you feel normal.
I considered some of the longer ones but they carry the rush of rolling up and that would be a big annoyance day to day, do you have an issue with yours riding up?
The longer ones do roll up on me but not the cotton ones because it's just a cotton tank top.with a binder sewn in.
Well, if OP is white or black or otherwise non-indonesian/malaysian looking, he could probably get remarks about being short compared to other foreigners. That is.
Who are some of the best FFS surgeons in and outside the US
Right now I have a consultation with Dr. Mardirossian in south florida Who here has had FFS and had good results
Do you feel scared/frightened, or do they try their best to be as reassuring as possible?
Even simple blood tests scare the shit out of me. Are their staff nice?
For sure I'm scared, but... Idk less so since I got here? I just have to trust all the time I spent researching and deciding. Now I'm just kind of along for the ride
The ft staff is quite nice.
Blood tests scare you? That's rough. I can't say they bother me at this point
How long have you spent there pre-op?
Anything medical scares me. Anytime I have to see a doctor (or even a dentist) for something, I get so frightened that my heart beat gets faster and I start sweating.
Either the doctor notices this and does what they can to reassure me, or they make the comment and start questioning whether or not I have other health issues, which usually makes me feel worse.
I don't think I could go through anything of this sort without someone close to me being there to reassure me.
Only a matter of hours, I went right to the hospital from the airport, though I think its typical to have stuff only the day after you arrive
Oh OK yeah, I get mad anxiety sometimes for doctors, though usually only if it involves trans shit. Blood is ok for me. They had to redo my vitals at the docs once because my heart was racing so much
Do you have someone who could go with you?
Anyone else feel annoyed that they look really ambigious as to what gender they are?
I seem to pass pretty well on dating sites because I'll be talking to folk and then disclose that I'm trans only for them to block me, but IRL passing is a mixed bag Pic related: it's me
I'm in like the same damn boat. 14 months hrt, can pass in pictures fine, but irl it depends on how my hair/skin looks that day. Dating is an even mix of dudes unmatching and being creepy weirdos. Sux.
this pic looks like you still have some beard shadow that needs covering
but your face looks okay otherwise
Looks distorted, use better lens.
this is my lyef.
I even have same hair colors.
I'm pretty sure im older and fatter and taller though.
no im definitely fatter.
Look like ex wife, would smash