>>8714964>What is that supposed to mean? So I don't deserve to be with someone just because I'm not attracted to or cater to cis people?
No anon. think about who you are when you pare away all ideas of romance and sex and love. in your entire life what else is there to you, and is that person really interesting, reliable, likable, courageous, productive, or anything like that? how much substance is there to you outside of your fixations on bonding?
who are you as an individual and would you even want to bond with that person if you met them?
You need to have a real life, a life that can begin and end and have purpose by itself before you can combine that life with someone else's, otherwise you're just using people to satisfy your cravings and you will be ignored or recycled by people who are at that level and don't care about deeper meanings